Who’s that Doula?
I'm Julie Ann, hello!
Although I cannot remember a time when I was not fascinated with birth, I do recall that my interest in childbearing piqued when I had my daughter in 2012.
Motherhood and the thrill of educating others on my experiences and helping others to be more aware of their choices, led me to embarking on a career in Midwifery.
I studied Midwifery for almost 3 years before leaving to remain a Doula full-time; favouring the unlimited time and attention paid to pregnant women and birthing people. Less note-taking, more connecting.
I can assure you that you have stumbled across a human being here who is well aware that birthing people are not always women, and that all pregnancies do not result in the gestational parent going home with a baby at the end of it all – whether that is adoption, surrogacy or otherwise!
My Birth services hope to find you early enough in your pregnancy so that we have the maximum possible time getting to know each other. We will make sure that you have the most enjoyable pregnancy possible, whilst also helping you to plan your ideal birth and ensuring you have all of the information that you could possibly need.
All births are covered by my services – however you bring your baby into the world; I am here to help you.
Where’s she from and what influences her?
My mother line (and father line!) and I are Irish. We come from farming backgrounds of large and happy families. My matriarchal line is steeped in respect for the role of the mother, with an astounding female presence at every corner. My mother was one of 10 children: 7 girls and 3 boys. Each sister was supported and coached through their pregnancies and births, and in certain situations feeding nieces and nephews with their breasts was shared.
I was born in 1980's Dublin, across the road from the beach with the freedom to run wild with my siblings and friends. We moved to London in my teens and since then I have lived all-around the globe, currently living in East Northamptonshire, UK.
My background prior to having children was in the IT industry in London's bustling Farringdon and Holborn. Rugby is my sport and I played for many years for Kingston University and Rosslyn Park. I attribute part of my absolute adoration and bond with strong, funny and sociable women to my days dedicated to rugby. Descendent from a father who played for the all-great and powerful Leinster rugby club, I had to do my bit!
After my first child was born in 2012, being a dedicated birthkeeper was my calling. I studied Midwifery for almost 3 years before leaving pre-qualification to continue being a Doula. The role of a Doula was always more appropriately suited to the level of care, attention and education that I wished to provide the women and birthing people who seek my support. I foresaw that NHS midwifery would also struggle to contain my tenacious and unapologetic birth activism! Since then, my education has been sculpted by writers and birthkeeper powerhouses such as my close friend Kemi Johnson (@KemiBirthJoyJohnson), Dr Sara Wickham, Dr Rachel Reed, Molly O'Brien, Ina May Gaskin, Michel Odent MD, and so so many more. If you're talking about physiological birth and how it WORKS then you are a part of my core values.
I am also a qualified Hypnobirthing practitioner through varied methods. My antenatal preparation education proves to families that pregnant bodies know exactly what to do and when to do it. Nurturing confidence and fire in women and families to be able to identify when the system is leading them down a harmful path, with the knowledge of options and choices that put them in control of their birth planning process.
Having worked for the NHS maternity services for some years, and continually witnessing the postcode lottery 'scheme' applied to UK hospital trusts: I feel a heavy responsibility (shared by other ex-NHS professionals) to expose and improve the maternity service for all. See our work at But Not Maternity and with March With Midwives to learn how organised and intellectual approaches to making changes results in positive action.
With But Not Maternity we petitioned for the relaxing and the cessation of Covid-related restrictions imposed on the maternity services. And then through March With Midwives we have campaigned for urgent attention to be paid to the state of maternity services as a whole in the UK; starting with the conditions which midwives must work under.
My approach to pregnancy and childbirth? This can be whatever my clients want it to be, as my role is to support them according to their own needs and desires, directed by them. However, my love and respect for the physiological process of childbearing and the early years can be infectious to those wishing to learn more. Breastfeeding and chestfeeding are my specialist areas during antenatal education and the postpartum period, so for those needing an extra warm hug of reassurance and science around why things may be tough starting out; I am here. I also volunteer with local Milk Mentors which host peer support Breastfeeding groups around Milton Keynes, Bedford and Northampton. Other methods of infant feeding and parenting require many strong hugs also, for which I am equally brilliant at.
My first birth was via induction/augmentation of labour with no complications, other than a very slow to start to breastfeeding which ended after a few weeks of very little support and an abusive family situation. The education that I received in the time between this birth and my second birth in 2019, broke my heart because I could see the ways in which I had been failed by my support network and health professionals at the time. And despite my superior knowledge of childbirth and breastfeeding this second time around, I knew that I needed a Doula to support me too. This loving care was provided by my peer, teacher, mentor and sister in birth: Verina Henchy. Reading through my text message chats with her through my pregnancy and postnatal period I am amazed how easy it was for me to forget all I had learnt in the past, and fondly note Verina's simple "you know the answer to this, don't you Julie Ann..." responses. Constantly reminding my that I had the power, I had the knowledge, I knew what to do. We doubt ourselves so much during these vulnerable stages of motherhood.
My second birth was a liberating, healing, pain-free and powerful experience at home, after growing my baby for 43 weeks he arrived in perfect form, all 10lb 1oz of him. I could hear my ancestors and all of the women I had helped in my years of birthkeeping experience, whispering in my ear and reassuring me along the way.
Have a chat with me. We have a lot to share with each other!